Heart or head?? please help?

its your first apartment and your sharing it with someone who your in a relationship with. not the greatest idea because first of all you'll be stressed with having to pay the bills for once and im sure he will too which will cause you two to fuss at each other a bit im sure. secondly, he doesnt have a job. whenever your moving in with someone, although you may love them and whatnot, you should look out for your best interest as well as them too. and being the one to solely pay the bills is just going to cause you two to move farther apart and then (hopefully not) you guys split up and you'll end up paying the bills yourself or moving back home so. i mean you can do whatever you want but these are just some things to keep in mind. maybe when you both are financially stable and have over enough money to rent an apartment together then it would be a much better idea then lets say now. even though im a bit young to know about moving into apartments and stuff(17) i hope this helps